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Zero tolerance can lead to a new type of bullying: state sponsored. I remember a younger colleague who talked about her school experience, this was just at the

Zero tolerance can lead to a new type of bullying: state sponsored. I remember a younger colleague who talked about her school experience, this was just at the start of zero tolerance because there was a belief that bullying caused school gun violence. Bullies quickly found out it was easy to just report "weird" kids as potential shooters and let the school torment them with investigations.

doubled112 4mo ago
You can also use the school staff to help you bully other kids. Play the victim, they can't allow that, now the other kid is in trouble for nothing. Start a fight knowing you'll both get into trouble, laugh at the other kid who is in trouble because of your choices.
- thih9 4mo ago
  Bullying via playing the victim can work after school too. Eg. some legal cases are like this.
  - rdtsc 4mo ago
    It works too well. Especially with the "first to call" or "first to complain" gets automatically a 500 point boost in credibility. "Clearly if they called the police first, the to other party must be at fault".
- grogenaut 4mo ago
  My (private) school had the luxury of sorting this through a multi tier system. a) detention was 3 hours minimum on a saturday. It involved manual labor like mulching flower beds, picking up litter while rolling around 50 gallon drums, etc. b) if you liked manual labor you were made to do homework with someone paying direct attention or lecturing subjects you were bad at. c) if you attempted to opt out of that they would have you dig holes 3 feet deep with a post hole digger and fill them back in. d) if you attempted to opt out of that you got 2 options 1) the teachers thought you were redeemable. you pushed the dumpster around campus picking up the 50 gallon drums. 3 times during the circuit you'd come back and raise a 50 lb plate overhead and drop it to smash the garbage. Aroudn 30 times each round. One of the philosophy teachers would expound on your life decisions for the full 3 hours. 2) you were enrolled at your public school immediately, and truant the next day. your parents were called and told to pick you up and returned the balance of the tuition. it was a large luxury of privilege.
rdtsc 4mo ago
> Zero tolerance can lead to a new type of bullying: state sponsored. Absolutely. The more of a victim you're perceived the more attention and the more punishment the bully gets. If the system overreacts, bullies would be stupid not to use the over-reaction in their favor. One of the kids at my daughter's school figured it out and was getting others in trouble by falling down then telling the teacher so and so pushed her and that was like 2nd grade. They can also team up together to accumulate these reports against student they don't like and just let the state come down on them and ruin their life.
- bonesss 4mo ago
  So, what you’re saying is, HR department behaviours start long before HR department employment.
  - natpalmer1776 4mo ago
    The institutions we force on our children often closely mirror the institutions we implement for ourselves. Conversely, the institutions we go through as children mold our perceptions of how they should appear in adulthood.
  - joeross 4mo ago
    HR and school admin are the same in that many mistakenly think they are there to help the employee or the student. That is not true. They are there to protect the institution, to manage and mitigate risk and liability. Any assistance to employees or students is a side effect of that work.
- ZeroGravitas 4mo ago
  This doesn't sound like a result of "zero tolerance" policies, unless the one faking being attacked was also punished, but you didn't mention it. And if that's the case "zero tolerance" would on the face of it seem to discourage this kind of fakery by punishing the faker too. Even the comment before doesn't sound that relevant to the normal complaint because again, the two parties aren't both being punished, just the one reported to the system as a potential threat. So we are complaining: 1. The victim and the perpetrator are equally punished (because it's hard to figure out who started it when a physical fight starts) 2. People shouldn't always believe reports of kids being potential school shooters, because they might be liars doing a mini-(or indeed literal) SWATing by weaponizing the institutional response. 3. People shouldn't always believe people who complain about bullies generally, because they might be liars being "cry-bullies" These individually sounds like hard problems to solve. Combined they have further complexities and solutions for one seen to make others worse. The tone of these complaints often make it seem like there is an obvious better way, but that may in fact just reflect the strong feeling that they were the victim, and that the other person should have been punished, not them (or their child). Which is understandable but not really a great basis to make policy on.

doubled112 4mo ago

You can also use the school staff to help you bully other kids. Play the victim, they can't allow that, now the other kid is in trouble for nothing. Start a fight knowing you'll both get into trouble, laugh at the other kid who is in trouble because of your choices.

thih9 4mo ago
Bullying via playing the victim can work after school too. Eg. some legal cases are like this.
- rdtsc 4mo ago
  It works too well. Especially with the "first to call" or "first to complain" gets automatically a 500 point boost in credibility. "Clearly if they called the police first, the to other party must be at fault".
grogenaut 4mo ago
My (private) school had the luxury of sorting this through a multi tier system. a) detention was 3 hours minimum on a saturday. It involved manual labor like mulching flower beds, picking up litter while rolling around 50 gallon drums, etc. b) if you liked manual labor you were made to do homework with someone paying direct attention or lecturing subjects you were bad at. c) if you attempted to opt out of that they would have you dig holes 3 feet deep with a post hole digger and fill them back in. d) if you attempted to opt out of that you got 2 options 1) the teachers thought you were redeemable. you pushed the dumpster around campus picking up the 50 gallon drums. 3 times during the circuit you'd come back and raise a 50 lb plate overhead and drop it to smash the garbage. Aroudn 30 times each round. One of the philosophy teachers would expound on your life decisions for the full 3 hours. 2) you were enrolled at your public school immediately, and truant the next day. your parents were called and told to pick you up and returned the balance of the tuition. it was a large luxury of privilege.

rdtsc 4mo ago

> Zero tolerance can lead to a new type of bullying: state sponsored. Absolutely. The more of a victim you're perceived the more attention and the more punishment the bully gets. If the system overreacts, bullies would be stupid not to use the over-reaction in their favor. One of the kids at my daughter's school figured it out and was getting others in trouble by falling down then telling the teacher so and so pushed her and that was like 2nd grade. They can also team up together to accumulate these reports against student they don't like and just let the state come down on them and ruin their life.

bonesss 4mo ago
So, what you’re saying is, HR department behaviours start long before HR department employment.
- natpalmer1776 4mo ago
  The institutions we force on our children often closely mirror the institutions we implement for ourselves. Conversely, the institutions we go through as children mold our perceptions of how they should appear in adulthood.
- joeross 4mo ago
  HR and school admin are the same in that many mistakenly think they are there to help the employee or the student. That is not true. They are there to protect the institution, to manage and mitigate risk and liability. Any assistance to employees or students is a side effect of that work.
ZeroGravitas 4mo ago
This doesn't sound like a result of "zero tolerance" policies, unless the one faking being attacked was also punished, but you didn't mention it. And if that's the case "zero tolerance" would on the face of it seem to discourage this kind of fakery by punishing the faker too. Even the comment before doesn't sound that relevant to the normal complaint because again, the two parties aren't both being punished, just the one reported to the system as a potential threat. So we are complaining: 1. The victim and the perpetrator are equally punished (because it's hard to figure out who started it when a physical fight starts) 2. People shouldn't always believe reports of kids being potential school shooters, because they might be liars doing a mini-(or indeed literal) SWATing by weaponizing the institutional response. 3. People shouldn't always believe people who complain about bullies generally, because they might be liars being "cry-bullies" These individually sounds like hard problems to solve. Combined they have further complexities and solutions for one seen to make others worse. The tone of these complaints often make it seem like there is an obvious better way, but that may in fact just reflect the strong feeling that they were the victim, and that the other person should have been punished, not them (or their child). Which is understandable but not really a great basis to make policy on.