zgoat

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   by zgoat 12y ago

   I would understand that something about how I'm communicating to other people might not be working as well as I think it is, at least with the person making the rant. What I insisted was dramatised but the issue that I'm taking he
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   by zgoat 12y ago

   Then I missed the intent of my post a bit - I'm not calling out the coping style, I'm trying to address the lack of empathy in the response to the Op. The guy is clearly grieving and depressed over what has happened, it's not
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   by zgoat 12y ago

   So if yourself, or Sammi (below), experienced a partner or loved one gradually rotting away from terminal cancer, you would of course be as perfectly detached and rational in examining life while you were grieving over the event? Responses
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   by zgoat 12y ago

   This can be dictated by circumstances though, I work in a situation where programming isn't the main value add of the work (but is necessary anyhow), so people tend to identify with their language and formally "switch" becaus
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   by zgoat 12y ago

   I think this feeling is often eliminated by hindsight and change of circumstance. I've had the same sensation at a few points in my life until I broadened my fields of study, took on new roles, went broke etc. In my own experience it&#
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   by zgoat 12y ago

   Not stupid at all. The same concerns and some bad experiences with 2/3 conflicts and deployment issues drove me to Go after investing quite a bit of time with Python, and I've not regretted it yet. I'm not sure if it was some