throwaway1980s

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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
> he said sorry Since every time there has been intervention by my boss prior to an apology, I have no idea if that was requested by my boss or not. > I demanded an apology for her threatening to punch me in the face, she just deni
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
> If it were me, I'd probably try grabbing a coffee/tea/beer with him outside of the office That's exactly what I have done before. I mean, I work with Jerry every day, and we would regularly go out for a beer after
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
> You haven't stated whether you have talked to Jerry directly about this, if you haven't I suggest this would be a first step. The only time we've discussed these things is during the post-mortem/apology phase, an
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
That's a very excellent point, thank you, I will heed that advice.
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
I'm not sure anything illegal has occurred here? Or that I would have a case?
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
The moral factor hits home, as if I did this, then one of us would be out of a job, regardless. It feels like a failure regardless of the outcome. I also know from prior conversations that it would result in me being the one walking, as whi
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by throwaway1980s 13y ago
If neither is concerned with how Jerry treats his co-workers it might be time to update the resume. Both are aware, and I've already spoken with them about it. The response was, from my boss, that nothing can be done as if he l
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