justaname

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by justaname 15y ago
Nope, Switzerland. The people here don't have the concept of having your back. They figure, if it doesn't affect their person directly, they're better off keeping to themselves. The neutrality of the country matches the way they deal with d
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by justaname 15y ago
sounds like a plan
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by justaname 15y ago
It's hard to respond to this. It's extremely honest, and leaves only room for the choices you make for yourself. > I've done a large subset of the "things I'd like to do before I die" At least you have a concept of the things you like,
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by justaname 15y ago
>a big component of these kinds of fights is test of your patience This is a good insight. At some point you manage to carry on despite all the bad feelings, and you're simply dragging yourself through the last bit of crap that's holdin
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by justaname 15y ago
Wow, cool offer :) Australia's my next destination. The place I used to call home and will again soon. It's my light at the end of the tunnel, for the moment.
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by justaname 15y ago
It has a lot to do with trust. Without trust, how can a relationship work? Also, do I want to find out twenty years later that I raised the child of another man? No, I don't. Thirdly, getting blood tests that may turn out positive through n
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by justaname 15y ago
I appreciate you offering the blog to read, and I've skimmed some, but the several mentions of infidelity are simply salt for my wounds. I have an absolutely furious anger towards infidelity, for which I won't ever again be made to apologiz
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by justaname 15y ago
> Not to put you down, but I seriously doubt you are as acquainted with relationship drama as I am. Ouch..
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by justaname 15y ago
Thanks mate.
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by justaname 15y ago
Thanks for your honesty. I live in a country right now where everything gets swept under the rug. No courage left here to face reality. I seriously hope you can stay so strong and pull through. Keep on keeping on.
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by justaname 15y ago
Well, the frustrating thing about love, even after betrayal, is that your biological make up makes you believe you need that person. It took me a long time before I lost hope and decided even feeling that way wasn't worth being with that pe
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by justaname 15y ago
Actually, if I did, it wouldn't even be for this female, but simply to get relief from the emotional and mental torment that I have to endure most days. Turns out I'm a fighter, and I intend to make it, but when things go down far enough, y
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by justaname 15y ago
Once the responsibilities have been carried out, consider the option of just walking away, if it's an option, instead of offing yourself. It's just one of many options. I wrote a post a bit further down. Probably my situation is similar but
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by justaname 15y ago
I wish I could see marriage this way. After being with my girlfriend for almost 7 years, we married. Turns out, a few days before the wedding she started an affair with the leader of her theatre group, whom she invited with the group to our