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by cancelled 5y ago
I'm so sorry to hear this. Understandably you're still upset, but I hope things are better today.
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by cancelled 5y ago
Thank you all for your insight. I think a few next steps are clear to me. 1. Seek some therapy/mental help. Something I've been lacking and psyched myself out in to thinking I don't deserve it. 2. See if there are any legal a
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by cancelled 5y ago
I think you may be right, and maybe I am psyching myself out. I've always been a very good interviewer/interviewee (even helping others out with a job search!) This has all been so much, I don't even feel like the same person
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by cancelled 5y ago
Some other platform picked it up and started bagging on me. Not national news public, but still.
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by cancelled 5y ago
I was the "successful" one in my family, so i don't really have a lot of familial borrowing power unfortunately. Sadly, I am the only person with my name in the country. something I used to be proud of actually.
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by cancelled 5y ago
It's hard to strike it out on my own when my name is worthless. Thanks for your perspective.
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by cancelled 5y ago
Is there even anyone that would take this on spec? Previously stated, my financial situation is unfortunately dire at this time :/
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by cancelled 5y ago
Thank you <3 I did go the police route as i mentioned in a previous comment, to no avail, but to be honest, I have less than a thousand dollars to my name at the time. I suspect the person that did this to me is not in the United States.
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by cancelled 5y ago
To onlookers it appears that I spent years a decade ago going on racist and sexist tirades. I would love just to own it and be honest, but the way things were set against me, it just looks like I'm making excuses for myself. The whole
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by cancelled 5y ago
I certainly will, and I hope I can follow up with good news. This has been the worst experience of my life. A) Because people believe I did and said things that I've always opposed B) Because no one gives me enough of a chance to show
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by cancelled 5y ago
I am purposely being vague to avoid outing myself, but knowing the situation, and knowing what was attributed to me as being said, somehow this seems like it would just highlight a toxic situation and be an automatic red flag to employers.
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by cancelled 5y ago
Thanks to all for the advice. I think contract work + changing my name is really the only way forward. I was naive in thinking I could get it all back somehow, and I have been too disillusioned to see the obvious through this whole ordeal.
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by cancelled 5y ago
I wish. Sadly, I have no clue who this person truly is. Someone I spent years on ${platform} with, mostly avoiding.
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by cancelled 5y ago
My manager did and I could tell they believed, but the optics of it all I imagined made it too toxic to be worth defending me over. Racist, sexist content was falsely attributed to me.
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by cancelled 5y ago
That would be great if it worked like that. I know it's stupid in my position, but I like my name, and I know I didn't really do anything wrong. I feel like it would absolutely just be like letting the offending party win, if I di
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by cancelled 5y ago
Sorry you had to make an account, but it's really appreciated. The contracting work is good advice, I have been looking exclusively for full time positions, at small agencies for sure, but still, no dice as I've said. Maybe I need
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by cancelled 5y ago
I have absolutely, I just have worried about the optics of changing my name and having people find out, like it would seem as though I'm running from things and making it worse.
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