Rilfeu

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by Rilfeu 4y ago
As it should be. It's a resource for professional developers, not people who are learning how to code for the first time.
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by Rilfeu 5y ago
The automotive industry has safety regulations. Why shouldn't IT have some regulation as well?
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by Rilfeu 5y ago
- No choice of download directory in their app
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
I always like to counter "somebody is poorer than you so you should be happy" with "does that mean I should be unhappy because there are people richer than me?". But, as somebody living in 2nd world I do get what the per
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
Do you know that a person can commit suicide due to mental health[1]? That sounds pretty serious if you ask me. I do understand what you're trying to say. But sometimes the threat is imminent but you cannot see it, and many people will
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
I can tell you with certainty, many people, at least people close to me didn't have good intentions when giving advice. Or even if they did have good intentions, they told me the completely wrong things. When somebody tells you things
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
It is not the point of this. The point of this comic is to try to make people who never had mental health issues understand how it feels from our point of view when you give your clueless and tone deaf advice. Would you not be at least a bi
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
The core of my beliefs is stoicism, although I never looked into their original works, my therapist told me that what he taught me is stoicism. I basically make peace with the fact that hardships in life are unavoidable.
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
> Sometimes people engage in these situations for multiple reasons. They're looking for their anxiety to be validated In these situations I do everything to not validate the anxiety, but still be understanding of their feelings. As
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
This is exactly what I do, now that I've climbed out of the hole, I extend my hand to help others come out. I'm very open about things that I went through, and it validates people's feelings, and hopefully gives them some opt
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
Hey, yoga is actually awesome, I have to agree there. But I always ignored that advice until I came up with going to yoga class on my own. I think this is important in understanding the issue here. It's not that the advice is bad, it&#
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by Rilfeu 6y ago
Do you have any example of the advice they gave you that you "benefited immensely from?". Because I got this kind of advice a million times and it only made me feel worse. Also, when this kind of advice came from my family, they w