agree with both of you - not always easiest conversations, but they are important questions. As I say in the post, it's ideal to try to have a more natural con

agree with both of you - not always easiest conversations, but they are important questions. As I say in the post, it's ideal to try to have a more natural conversation - not just go down the list. But sometimes you just have to ask tough questions - it's more awkward/painful to "break-up" down the road.