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It just goes to show that people have very different views. I think when I hear people thinking out loud (ums and ahs) it's a marker that they are actually enga
by venzaspa 3mo ago
It just goes to show that people have very different views. I think when I hear people thinking out loud (ums and ahs) it's a marker that they are actually engaging with the question, thinking through an answer and not bullshitting without thinking.
- td6 3mo agoI agree to you, when it's in person. I think what your describing is mostly the beginning of an answer. Just randoms "um" inbetween because your struggling to build sentences can get annoying both in person and online
- doubled112 3mo ago"Ummm, I think I agree with this description" vs "I, think, umm, I agree with, umm, this description" The first one indicates something along the lines of "thinking, please stand by". The second one is a struggle.
- inopinatus 3mo agoJust sit there in silence whilst you cogitate.
- gegtik 3mo agothis is the move
- macintux 3mo agoSpace fillers are sadly important for group settings where you need to finish a thought before someone interjects. But hearing them from an interviewee drives me crazy, along with "sort of", "kind of", etc. I once counted all of the "sorta"s in an NPR interview, it was brutal.
- fasterik 3mo agoI think speaking fluidly while thinking out loud is a completely separate skill. Some people are really good at it, usually the ones who get a lot of practice at public speaking. I also suspect extroverts have an easier time with it than introverts. "Ums" and "ahs" aren't necessarily evidence that a person is thinking, but it's also true that a lot of very smart people are "inarticulate" in the conventional sense.