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My therapist frames this as "family of origin" (FOO) vs "family of choice" (FOC).
by beastcoast 8mo ago
My therapist frames this as "family of origin" (FOO) vs "family of choice" (FOC).
- celticninja 8mo agoThis is like the saying blood is thicker than water, but the the full version: The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. Sometimes you relationship with your FOC is stronger and better, because it is not built on genetic predisposition but rather it is a bond that you intentionally create.
- cvcount 8mo agoSomewhat tangential, but from what I can see, the idea that "the blood of the covenant..." is the full version of the saying is a fairly modern invention.
- immibis 8mo agoAs is "the customer is always right in matters of taste"
- sharkmerry 8mo agoApparently there isnt much to back that up. Writing in the 1990s and 2000s, author Albert Jack[18] and Messianic minister Richard Pustelniak,[19] claim that the original meaning of the expression was that the ties between people who have made a blood covenant (or have shed blood together in battle) were stronger than ties formed by "the water of the womb", thus "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb". Neither of the authors cites any sources to support his claim.[18][19] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_is_thicker_than_water https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_is_thicker_than_water