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Author here. Awesome that this post got boosted by my latest post. As i wrote in an earlier post, my reason for wanting to develop on my phone is that i became

Author here. Awesome that this post got boosted by my latest post. As i wrote in an earlier post, my reason for wanting to develop on my phone is that i became a dad, and my kids did not want to sleep in a bed, so i spent a lot of time sitting in a rocking chair with trying to get them to sleep. One arm is needed for child support. One arm left to do development…

mystifyingpoi 1y ago
I just replied to someone else about this. I had exactly the same challenge with my first newborn. Simply sitting in a chair for hours is really mentally taxing and a huge waste of time. Good for you, that you've found something that doesn't get in a way of helping your child to fall asleep.
- royletron 1y ago
  Baby sling and a standing desk! Get's a little uncomfy in the heat, but I could pretty much do a whole workday - with a couple of feeding breaks, and milk for the baby of course ;).
- ivanmontillam 1y ago
  > Simply sitting in a chair for hours is really mentally taxing and a huge waste of time. How do people that rawdog international flights do it? No phone, no books, no music, maybe just the flight screen with the little aeroplane over the map. You could just let your thoughts wander. That's a form of meditation, letting the mind unravel on its own. I wish I did it more, actually.
  - organsnyder 1y ago
    I remember going on family road trips growing up, and my only options for entertainment were reading or looking out the window. We did a road trip a few weeks ago, and my kids were beside themselves if they had to go without some form of interactive entertainment for more than a few minutes. Of course, I'm sure I was often annoying as hell during long car rides when I was a kid. And the luxury of handing kids a magic-zone-out-device is a lifesaver. But I do wonder if I'm shortchanging my kids by not forcing them to be bored more often.
    - ivanmontillam 1y ago
      The ability to be "bored" is an advantage today. IMHO, it develops patience.
  - mystifyingpoi 1y ago
    > You could just let your thoughts wander I tried at first, didn't work. I was frustrated after 15 mins of this. But don't worry - I had a plenty of thought wander time at nights, when I was trying to fall asleep, being awoken for the 7th time that night.
  - cyberpunk 1y ago
    Hah, a flight is at most what, 10-12 hours? Try a zen sesshin sometime :}
- cyberpunk 1y ago
  One day they'll be so big you can't pick them up anymore. I've never looked back at all the time I spent with my infant son asleep on my arms and thought, damn, what a waste of time that was. Everyone is different I guess.
corobo 1y ago
Something that might be worth a look at for anyone in this situation is the Twiddler, it's a one handed mouse and keyboard. Connects via USB and/or Bluetooth I know of it via a streamer who uses it to control OBS, but this is more its native use case haha https://www.mytwiddler.com/ https://www.mytwiddler.com/

mystifyingpoi 1y ago

I just replied to someone else about this. I had exactly the same challenge with my first newborn. Simply sitting in a chair for hours is really mentally taxing and a huge waste of time. Good for you, that you've found something that doesn't get in a way of helping your child to fall asleep.

royletron 1y ago
Baby sling and a standing desk! Get's a little uncomfy in the heat, but I could pretty much do a whole workday - with a couple of feeding breaks, and milk for the baby of course ;).
ivanmontillam 1y ago
> Simply sitting in a chair for hours is really mentally taxing and a huge waste of time. How do people that rawdog international flights do it? No phone, no books, no music, maybe just the flight screen with the little aeroplane over the map. You could just let your thoughts wander. That's a form of meditation, letting the mind unravel on its own. I wish I did it more, actually.
- organsnyder 1y ago
  I remember going on family road trips growing up, and my only options for entertainment were reading or looking out the window. We did a road trip a few weeks ago, and my kids were beside themselves if they had to go without some form of interactive entertainment for more than a few minutes. Of course, I'm sure I was often annoying as hell during long car rides when I was a kid. And the luxury of handing kids a magic-zone-out-device is a lifesaver. But I do wonder if I'm shortchanging my kids by not forcing them to be bored more often.
  - ivanmontillam 1y ago
    The ability to be "bored" is an advantage today. IMHO, it develops patience.
- mystifyingpoi 1y ago
  > You could just let your thoughts wander I tried at first, didn't work. I was frustrated after 15 mins of this. But don't worry - I had a plenty of thought wander time at nights, when I was trying to fall asleep, being awoken for the 7th time that night.
- cyberpunk 1y ago
  Hah, a flight is at most what, 10-12 hours? Try a zen sesshin sometime :}
cyberpunk 1y ago
One day they'll be so big you can't pick them up anymore. I've never looked back at all the time I spent with my infant son asleep on my arms and thought, damn, what a waste of time that was. Everyone is different I guess.

corobo 1y ago

Something that might be worth a look at for anyone in this situation is the Twiddler, it's a one handed mouse and keyboard. Connects via USB and/or Bluetooth I know of it via a streamer who uses it to control OBS, but this is more its native use case haha https://www.mytwiddler.com/ https://www.mytwiddler.com/