What you find regrettable is your problem, not mine. If I invite people, I do it for the people, if I go out to eat I do it for the food. I don't see why this

What you find regrettable is your problem, not mine. If I invite people, I do it for the people, if I go out to eat I do it for the food. I don't see why this regrettable just because you think it is.