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In my mind, an important point here is that NO ONE should be asked to put together a pot luck. Why does anyone think this kind of thing is appropriate in the wo
by yelsgib 15y ago
In my mind, an important point here is that NO ONE should be asked to put together a pot luck. Why does anyone think this kind of thing is appropriate in the workplace? It makes me want to vomit when workplace boss becomes social boss. If anyone ever told me to put together a pot luck my immediate response would be "go fuck yourself."
- pavel_lishin 15y agoIf you worked with me, I would tell the entire office that everyone is welcome to the 24-pack of beer I brought from home ... except you.
- yelsgib 15y agoI'm really glad I don't work with you, then?
- jrockway 15y agoI wouldn't have hired either of you.
- colanderman 15y agoI believe that would make you a petty asshole. There's a huge difference between offering to organize something social and being told to do so.
- secoif 15y agoWhy point out you brought it from home?
- sukuriant 15y agoYou're getting quite a bit of flak for this. You got a sucky boss? I rather like my co-workers, and potlucks are just one method of team-building/friendship making that can be had at work. No, work buddies should never be your only friends, but to have a pleasant time around co-workers, and to have team-building events such as those? There's nothing wrong with that; and, I would argue it helps to create a condusive and lower-friction environment.
- cperciva 15y agoThere's a difference between friends and forced friends. There are lots of FreeBSD developers I'd be happy to invite over for dinner if they were in town, but that doesn't mean I'd be happy if someone told me that I had to invite them over for dinner. My social life is just fine, thanks. I don't need a boss telling me who my friends should be.
- bmj 15y agoMy employer does this sort of thing, but it isn't mandatory. A sign-up sheet goes up in the kitchen, and there's never a lack of participation. From what I've seen, folks seem to genuinely enjoy doing this sort of thing, so more power to them. Sometimes I take part, sometimes I don't. Now, if we were forced to participate, that'd be another matter.
- adharmad 15y agoNothing wrong with a less frition-filled work environment. But it should not be mandatory. Also real friction caused by workplace politics rarely reduces due to such events.
- sukuriant 15y agoAre there statistics on if its less likely to happen in the first place?
- prawn 15y agoFor anyone else who had no idea what a "pot luck" was - it's basically a "bring-a-plate" event ("Odds on savoury, evens on dessert" at a residential street party).
- sukuriant 15y agoIn the context of work, the event is probably at the work itself, like in one of the open meeting rooms.
- michaelkscott 15y agoThough my response won't be as forward as yours, I couldn't agree more.
- stephengillie 15y agoI'm not a professional chef, I'm a sysadmin. Cooking isn't part of my job description. I don't want to be forced to eat food prepared by people who don't have food handlers' cards, and I don't want my coworkers to feel hurt because I don't want to eat what they cooked and left in their car. Want to improve morale and do teambuilding? Get a cater, or go somewhere for lunch.
- supercanuck 15y agoLighten up
- gtrak 15y agoYea, seriously. WTF is a food handler's card? It's not like a medical license.
- hef19898 15y agoStupid question, but what is a "pot luck"? Edit: Question answered! The ability to read actually is an advantage! ;-)
- ubercore 15y agoI agree. The "asked to put together" is the offensive part. I consider myself lucky to work with people that I do want to hang out with, and sometimes we collectively decide to plan a social event together, but having it come top-down really riles me up.
- tripzilch 15y agoI wondered about the pot luck thing, isn't the point of a pot luck that everyone brings something to eat for everyone? If she'd be the only one that had to bring something, it wouldn't be a pot luck any more, right? At least, that's what I understand pot luck to mean? I like them a lot btw, very American thing, so we don't do it often enough here, but my hummus is always appreciated ;-)