Thanks for the response and for the book tip. I will read it. You are right that it was a big mistake to not get involved in what the other was doing. In retro

Thanks for the response and for the book tip. I will read it. You are right that it was a big mistake to not get involved in what the other was doing. In retrospect I think our egos prevented us from allowing "interference" in what the other was doing so it naturally developed like that.