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I am an American and have lived in Europe (Northern Europe) for over four years. I don’t fear awkward silences anymore either, but, what I do miss is an easy go
by hackercurious 11y ago
I am an American and have lived in Europe (Northern Europe) for over four years. I don’t fear awkward silences anymore either, but, what I do miss is an easy going relationship with conversation. It seems to me as if Europeans can be socially awkward and I am not sure if I will ever entirely warm up to the idea of “the culture of comfortable silence.” Perhaps a balance between insentient chattering and enforced silence would be nice. I believe conversation is an art, it is important, and it is part of what makes us human.
- yason 11y agoNorthern Europeans do chatter but if it only flys. If it doesn't, like with many if not most people, there's no reason to chat.
- hackercurious 11y agoThe author forgot to mention what happens when large quantities of alcohol is involved. When everyone is drunk they are quite chatty.