> Everybody is an asshole from the point of view of someone else. Agreed. One man's asshole is another man's best friend. Also, and perhaps more commonly, pe

> Everybody is an asshole from the point of view of someone else. Agreed. One man's asshole is another man's best friend. Also, and perhaps more commonly, people behave differently to different people and in different circumstances. I've never met someone who was an asshole to their boss, even if they acted assholey in general to everyone else. Bullying is a bit easier to operationally define, focused on behavior, not attitudes or personality traits as much.