I have a family already. I am married with an 8 month old daughter and plan on having one more child. Thats what is really making me consider going with the mor

I have a family already. I am married with an 8 month old daughter and plan on having one more child. Thats what is really making me consider going with the more established company. With that said though, I did somewhat fall into this startup, they offered my a job, it seemed promising, I do see a bright future for it and I do see it succeeding. But I'm not sure I want to wait it out and take the risk just yet. I have lots of experience building something myself, and I do enjoy that. But thinking back to my college days I also really really enjoyed working on another team with other developers, which is something I have not done since college. Thats what was appealing to me about startups, was the environment and being surrounded by other developers. I now realize thats not the case until a startup becomes somewhat successful and has funding to make something like that happen.