I want to help who I empathize with. But if I do not love myself, how am I supposed to love others? I cannot help poor people, I do not empathize with them.

I want to help who I empathize with. But if I do not love myself, how am I supposed to love others? I cannot help poor people, I do not empathize with them. I can help broken people, but how am I to help them when I cannot help myself?