I'm not sure what this all boils down to. What does this mean for how I interact in public? If I still decide to talk to the beautiful women I encounter, that

I'm not sure what this all boils down to. What does this mean for how I interact in public? If I still decide to talk to the beautiful women I encounter, that means I'm placing importance on sex, right? Because otherwise, I'd be staring at my work and not really giving a hoot. Or are we saying there's a fine line between pursuing women and obsessing over the idea of love and sex as a determinant factor of one's self-esteem?