I have asserted that it's not so much that it in itself is disrespectful. It is disrespectful that they would not take into consideration that some of their aud

I have asserted that it's not so much that it in itself is disrespectful. It is disrespectful that they would not take into consideration that some of their audience may be made awkward by it (and a person can feel awkward about many things which are not necessarily bad in any way).