My SO is of the same sex. We are both in tech, he is more of a ux designer (though he started as a rails engineer), and I am more backend. We hack together ofte

My SO is of the same sex. We are both in tech, he is more of a ux designer (though he started as a rails engineer), and I am more backend. We hack together often, and constantly inspire each other to be disruptive in what we put together. For me, I look for people in tech. My ex was also an engineer, give it up for the bay area and having so many chill, cute, stoner-engineer types. I love having a boyfriend that understands "You.kind_of? Cute == true". Having somebody to come home to that understands what I did today, and understanding his challenges and being able to communicate about it is awesome. There is no "translation" layer, I feel like this helps communication. We have plenty of differences, he is into home-improvement, I am into lots of music production. In general, we are more similar than other couples I've met. We have enough differences to keep it interesting, and enough in common that we never run out of things to talk about!