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I brought an item last month with a deferred 30 day payment, which I was going to cover when a client I was freelancing for paid me last week. However, they hav
by _1tch 13y ago
I brought an item last month with a deferred 30 day payment, which I was going to cover when a client I was freelancing for paid me last week. However, they have disappeared off the face of the earth and it does not look like they will reappear soon.
- uptown 13y agoIs this you? [link redacted]
- e1ven 13y agoWhy does it matter? Trying to pull more information from people than they want to share is somewhat rude.
- uptown 13y agoBecause lending money is always about trust and managing risk. In the context of potentially offering to float cash to a stranger - and getting a vague response about the exact situation requiring urgent cash - I'd like to know whether the person is trustworthy. Finding a mug shot that potentially resembles the cartoon version of the person requesting the cash from their website ( [link redacted] ) I see no harm in asking whether the person in the mug shot with the same name and potentially similar physical attributes was the same person.
- wtracy 13y agoExcept that he never asked anyone to lend him money. He asked for someone to hire him on a contract basis.
- uptown 13y agoTotally accurate. But he also replied to my question about why he needed the money in the context of the money being a loan rather than for work performed, so I continued the discussion. Personally, I'd trust somebody with $300 before I'd trust them with my codebase.
- e1ven 13y agoI feel that asking in private may have been understandable, but posting it publicly was over the line.
- biot 13y agoYour matching algorithm is about as accurate as a name match for a TSA no-fly list. Regarding the cartoon likeness, the only similarity I saw was the hairline... ok, that and two eyes, two ears, a nose, a mouth. To be honest, the cartoon image looks more like Ben Affleck.
- etjossem 13y agoLet's say you're applying for an incredibly basic credit card with a line of $1000. Would you expect the bank to obtain a copy of your credit report? Probably; that's standard practice. Would they also try to determine prior convictions? Maybe. Would you expect them to search for a mugshot of you based on a cartoon they saw, pick a totally unrelated image file, then factor what that person looks like and what they've been accused of pre-trial into the decision? I hope not. If you're planning to spot a fellow HN user some money, and you can't show them any trust, at least show a little professionalism. If you just did that for your own amusement, please don't ever do it again.
- uptown 13y agoI didn't search for a mugshot. I searched for his name, and it was the first photograph shown on the first page of the results. Your suggestion that this was done for amusement is incorrect. A basic name search for a person in "urgent" need of money from strangers where no friend or family is able or willing to help seems like pretty basic due diligence to me. Additionally - I'd refuse to ever lend to anybody that was an active gambler: "@[name redacted] Hello, do you honor bets where you have made an error with the odds? (Sports book not exchange)" [link redacted] The exact nature of my original question was trying to determine what the money was for, and that question remains unanswered.
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- _1tch 13y agoNope not me, would you like a picture?
- alex_doom 13y agoLooks like a PHP programmer for sure ;)
- runjake 13y agoYour Google-fu is lacking. Here's a picture of [name redacted]. It doesn't match. [link redacted]
- yoshgoodman 13y agoTo me it looks like they match
- _1tch 13y agoTrust me there is no resemblance
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