> it's a bummer and no one has anything to say about it. I think a lot of people could have something to say about this but they're afraid of being branded bad

> it's a bummer and no one has anything to say about it. I think a lot of people could have something to say about this but they're afraid of being branded bad parent or bad people. > it's not actionable - there is no going back Going back isn't the only way to take action. If you can't change the trigger you can try to control to a degree how you feel about it.