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> culturally, you might be almost embarrassed to offer your seat Haha exactly, but what's worse: the old person might think "damn! Another kid who believe I'm

• neilv 1mo ago
  Oh yeah, that happens. Have to play it by ear. In one kind of scenario, the freeing up of the seat has to be more discreet/subtle, and if there's a likely sense you did it intentionally, then an unspoken tone of "hey, I'm getting off the train, and this seat is free" or "I got your back, buddy", and maybe a hint of deferential respect if they're significant older than you (but not like you're calling them "old").