OP is off on costs, motivations and attitude. In a nutshell selfish person lashes out, assumes all side income is gravy. Shoe on the other foot, some people a

OP is off on costs, motivations and attitude. In a nutshell selfish person lashes out, assumes all side income is gravy. Shoe on the other foot, some people are having major financial struggles... are they best to say "buy me a coffee" or "oh shit, help"? Begging is so disgusting that even beggars are not happy to do it bluntly, until they're on the streets.