I ~never liked kids. I debated having them, then kind of settled on it (was planned). I expected to be be present but... aloof? Like my dad was. Instead, I h

I ~never liked kids. I debated having them, then kind of settled on it (was planned). I expected to be be present but... aloof? Like my dad was. Instead, I have buddies. I wouldn't call it unhealthy, just much more invested than I expected to be.