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I wasn’t homeschooled but I have been working from home for good part of last two decades. And I have not felt any negative effects of it. In fact, it forced m

I wasn’t homeschooled but I have been working from home for good part of last two decades. And I have not felt any negative effects of it. In fact, it forced me to go out seek friends in local communities like meetups and various clubs. I have a feeling that people who feel isolated due to WFH would be same people who don’t interact with anyone in the offices as well.

em-bee 3mo ago
I have a feeling that people who feel isolated due to WFH would be same people who don’t interact with anyone in the offices as well i am experiencing this from a different angle. i am shy in certain situations so i don't easily socialize. what helps me is forced/formalized socialization, like pair programming. forced in the sense that i don't have to ask someone to make it happen. (although asking gets easier as i get older) so what makes me feel isolated is working alone on a task. the fact that there are dozens of other people around me doesn't help much if i can't talk to them all day unless i need help. working from home doesn't make things much worse. but, it allows me to avoid social isolation through other means. the advantage of going out to seek friends is that you can choose where to go, and you can go to places that are more open to interaction than the people at work. still i would prefer work where i have to cooperate with others, and not just work on my tasks alone.
- xchip 3mo ago
  Well if you are shy, you have two options. Support going back to the office so everybody commutes there and you can easily talk to people without putting much effort... Or take it as a growth opportunity for yourself, take advantage of the extra time that you have saved in that useless commuting, and try to talk to people outside work and make friends as everybody else does. Please believe in yourself!
  - em-bee 3mo ago
    you didn't understand or even read what i wrote. my point was that talking to people in settings where talking is required is easier. and that is NOT the office, unless we are actually working on something together, but then i can also work together remotely, which works just as well. try to talk to people outside work you mean like what i wrote?: working from home doesn't make things much worse. but, it allows me to avoid social isolation through other means. the advantage of going out to seek friends is that you can choose where to go, and you can go to places that are more open to interaction than the people at work
  - shaftway 3mo ago
    Yeah, em-bee. You should just be not shy. As a fellow shy person, I feel the pain when someone basically just tells you to get over it.
aatd86 3mo ago
I think people who want you on site are lying because commuting and forced promiscuity and the lack of comfort is way worse. But commercial real estate takes a hit and it is not good for investors. They should lead with this instead...

em-bee 3mo ago

I have a feeling that people who feel isolated due to WFH would be same people who don’t interact with anyone in the offices as well i am experiencing this from a different angle. i am shy in certain situations so i don't easily socialize. what helps me is forced/formalized socialization, like pair programming. forced in the sense that i don't have to ask someone to make it happen. (although asking gets easier as i get older) so what makes me feel isolated is working alone on a task. the fact that there are dozens of other people around me doesn't help much if i can't talk to them all day unless i need help. working from home doesn't make things much worse. but, it allows me to avoid social isolation through other means. the advantage of going out to seek friends is that you can choose where to go, and you can go to places that are more open to interaction than the people at work. still i would prefer work where i have to cooperate with others, and not just work on my tasks alone.

xchip 3mo ago
Well if you are shy, you have two options. Support going back to the office so everybody commutes there and you can easily talk to people without putting much effort... Or take it as a growth opportunity for yourself, take advantage of the extra time that you have saved in that useless commuting, and try to talk to people outside work and make friends as everybody else does. Please believe in yourself!
- em-bee 3mo ago
  you didn't understand or even read what i wrote. my point was that talking to people in settings where talking is required is easier. and that is NOT the office, unless we are actually working on something together, but then i can also work together remotely, which works just as well. try to talk to people outside work you mean like what i wrote?: working from home doesn't make things much worse. but, it allows me to avoid social isolation through other means. the advantage of going out to seek friends is that you can choose where to go, and you can go to places that are more open to interaction than the people at work
- shaftway 3mo ago
  Yeah, em-bee. You should just be not shy. As a fellow shy person, I feel the pain when someone basically just tells you to get over it.

aatd86 3mo ago

I think people who want you on site are lying because commuting and forced promiscuity and the lack of comfort is way worse. But commercial real estate takes a hit and it is not good for investors. They should lead with this instead...