That or go "one and done" after having enough fun with: - Stress on the relationship of trying and failing for a long time - Stress of fertility treatments, if

That or go "one and done" after having enough fun with: - Stress on the relationship of trying and failing for a long time - Stress of fertility treatments, if needed - Likelihood of dealing with inevitable miscarriages on the way to a birth - Overall "medicalization" of pregnancy in middle age, and the stress of all that contact with the medical system