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Per your comment about the effect on socialization: hang in there! That space is improving! I've never gone for drinking, and it was deeply ingrained in the so
by abought 5mo ago
Per your comment about the effect on socialization: hang in there! That space is improving!
I've never gone for drinking, and it was deeply ingrained in the social and startup experience when I was younger. This could be a bit alienating at times (it's not fun being the only sober person at a party, and there's just no right way to refuse a kegstand invite from your boss).
One of the surprising outcomes of dry january and general aging... in some ways, I'm getting to know my long-time peers for the first time. More mixer events are providing non-alcoholic drinks as a first class item, and when we socialize, instead of pressuring me to do shots, we're sharing all the other stuff I enjoyed doing all along: trading favorite tea blends, day hikes, game nights, etc.
I've never met the author, but for anyone else considering this: Welcome, new old friend!