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Yeah probably because our patrichary is shit and woman earn a lot less money than man do which makes it easier for the man to pay for baby sitter, nanny, educat

Yeah probably because our patrichary is shit and woman earn a lot less money than man do which makes it easier for the man to pay for baby sitter, nanny, education etc. Perhaps we fixup our society instead of blaming it to a woman?

ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago
No clue why you are getting downvoted. It's well documented that women earn less. It's well documented that children are expensive. It's well documented that social safety nets are inadequate to assist in raising a child. You've literally just stated some objective facts and suggested we fix some of those challenges.
- ap99 6mo ago
  Money isn't the only factor of why the single fathers produce better outcomes for their children.
  - ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago
    Show your work, provide a source.
    - mieses 6mo ago
      you bring an interesting perspective
      - ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago
        Thanks, appreciate it.
  - muskstinks 6mo ago
    Ah yes other factors of misogynistics like potential men seeing a single mother as an issue why potential woman might not. Btw. its also a lot harder for man to get the sole custody which means that only the most motivated and well suited men even achieve this probably also with an expensive lawyer.
- giantg2 6mo ago
  I assume they are getting down voted because their statement is emotional and seemingly unsupported (seems to ignore child support). After accounting for child support, they should have similar resources. We can further investigate this when comparing to intact families - single parents of either sex have wealth gaps with intact families, yet outcomes in single father families tend to be close to the outcomes of the intact families. We would probably need more research into the topic to find concrete causes, but there doesn't seem to be much interest in that.
  - muskstinks 6mo ago
    I would have a lot more money even with child support just because I earn so much more than my wife. So in avg man earn more and have more carerse because they do not stay at home for the children. Also guess who normally gets custody? Yeah the mother. So having a man getting custidy is not normal at all. This skews the data massivly. So as long as we are not experts here but a group of men earning above avg, we might not stereotype and dismiss genders.
    - giantg2 6mo ago
      "I would have a lot more money even with child support just because I earn so much more than my wife." That depends on the state, especially looking at after tax income due to the tax treatment on both sides. "So having a man getting custidy is not normal at all. " I agree there could be bias there. I think if we looked at households with deceased parents and then controlled for income, that would present a good elimination of bias.
      - muskstinks 6mo ago
        There should be a cap in all states of child support. And independent of this, the person with a lot more income can do things the other person can't like getting a nani. And lets be honest here: A single father is so rare that this alone raises eyebrows and questions. Ironically more like positive reactions and dismissive ones against the woman.

ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago

No clue why you are getting downvoted. It's well documented that women earn less. It's well documented that children are expensive. It's well documented that social safety nets are inadequate to assist in raising a child. You've literally just stated some objective facts and suggested we fix some of those challenges.

ap99 6mo ago
Money isn't the only factor of why the single fathers produce better outcomes for their children.
- ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago
  Show your work, provide a source.
  - mieses 6mo ago
    you bring an interesting perspective
    - ahhhhnoooo 6mo ago
      Thanks, appreciate it.
- muskstinks 6mo ago
  Ah yes other factors of misogynistics like potential men seeing a single mother as an issue why potential woman might not. Btw. its also a lot harder for man to get the sole custody which means that only the most motivated and well suited men even achieve this probably also with an expensive lawyer.
giantg2 6mo ago
I assume they are getting down voted because their statement is emotional and seemingly unsupported (seems to ignore child support). After accounting for child support, they should have similar resources. We can further investigate this when comparing to intact families - single parents of either sex have wealth gaps with intact families, yet outcomes in single father families tend to be close to the outcomes of the intact families. We would probably need more research into the topic to find concrete causes, but there doesn't seem to be much interest in that.
- muskstinks 6mo ago
  I would have a lot more money even with child support just because I earn so much more than my wife. So in avg man earn more and have more carerse because they do not stay at home for the children. Also guess who normally gets custody? Yeah the mother. So having a man getting custidy is not normal at all. This skews the data massivly. So as long as we are not experts here but a group of men earning above avg, we might not stereotype and dismiss genders.
  - giantg2 6mo ago
    "I would have a lot more money even with child support just because I earn so much more than my wife." That depends on the state, especially looking at after tax income due to the tax treatment on both sides. "So having a man getting custidy is not normal at all. " I agree there could be bias there. I think if we looked at households with deceased parents and then controlled for income, that would present a good elimination of bias.
    - muskstinks 6mo ago
      There should be a cap in all states of child support. And independent of this, the person with a lot more income can do things the other person can't like getting a nani. And lets be honest here: A single father is so rare that this alone raises eyebrows and questions. Ironically more like positive reactions and dismissive ones against the woman.