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I know many people who have children and are not adults. And someone who never have kids will never be adult ?

• ReptileMan 6mo ago
  Yes. When you don't have kids you can always quit the game/rat race one way or another if it gets too much. With kids - it is different. Kids are the only burden you can't easily shrug off in this life.
  • sethammons 6mo ago
    I assume you grew up in different circles than me. I have seen countless kids shrugged off growing up poor and around drug addiction. I have heard the rich shrug them off to boarding school sometimes.
  • shinycode 6mo ago
    So you’ve never seen parents quit and neglect their kids ? That does not exists ?
    • ReptileMan 6mo ago
      I have seen of course. But the point is - if you abandon everything in life right now while childless you are not a failure as human being. It is your right to say fuck it all at any moment. If you abandon your kids you are.
      • shinycode 6mo ago
        Agreed, but it proves the point that having kids does not makes you an adult