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I am going to file this line > If you win every debate, you’re probably accumulating silent resistance.
by unlimit 9mo ago
I am going to file this line
> If you win every debate, you’re probably accumulating silent resistance.
- ronbenton 9mo agoThat one makes me uncomfortable, which is a bad sign...
- edonhametsu 9mo agoI'd say it's a good sign – at least now you're aware it might be happening. A worse sign would be thinking you're definitely not that sort of personality; you'd be accruing silent resentment from both being loud _and_ clueless.
- deleted 9mo ago[deleted]
- sseagull 9mo agoThis is one of the Five Dysfunctions of a Team (fear of conflict, caused by absence of trust). Highly recommend the book. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Five_Dysfunctions_of_a_Team https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Five_Dysfunctions_of_a_Tea...
- matwood 9mo agoSun Tsu said you have to either give your opponent an out or completely destroy them. I’ve always said that you can only skin a sheep once but can shear them over and over. Or to be more blunt, it’s better to be effective than right. It’s about keeping the bigger/long term goals in mind. That means relationships and being an asshole.
- sublang 9mo ago[dead]