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I thought the poker thing was strange ... but he didn't fully lose me until the SECOND time he suggested becoming a pickup artist. Ugh.
by paborden 14y ago
I thought the poker thing was strange ... but he didn't fully lose me until the SECOND time he suggested becoming a pickup artist. Ugh.
- victorhn 14y agoCan you elaborate more about why do you think becoming a pickup artist is a bad thing?
- paborden 14y agoThe author is essentially saying that learning to manipulate women teaches you to think strategically. He wouldn't say it like that ... but that's very close to what he's saying. He's NOT saying that it helps you learn social skills (which IS valuable and IS NOT really the point of what pickup is trying to teach you, let's be honest). I could go on and on about this. But this Quora answer knocks it out of the park so I don't have to. Her analysis is spot on: http://qr.ae/8VDLj http://qr.ae/8VDLj
- AmarettoAndCode 14y agoBetween my 2nd and 3rd years at Uni, a friend an I got into pickup. We watched videos, read books then went out in the evenings to practice. Pickings were slim since Bath becomes a ghost town during Summer, but we persevered. I was pretty good with women beforehand, and certainly got better afterwards, but at a certain point during our training, my focus shifted from pickup to something more akin to 'reading, understanding and influencing people better'. I think that's what pickup is really about: improving how you interact with people in general. So yeah, some people will hate it for a number of reasons and that's ok. There are other ways to work on people skills. But pickup has a little additional incentive for you to work harder..
- qdog 14y agoI thought he was talking about some kind of street basketball underground I wasn't familiar with, just skimmed past that.