It's a kind of status jiu-jitsu: the less you want, the more others want you. Good summary of this paper: https://unrav.io/#view/f1604fd7b327f48a9920f4d2561b96

It's a kind of status jiu-jitsu: the less you want, the more others want you. Good summary of this paper: https://unrav.io/#view/f1604fd7b327f48a9920f4d2561b9626 https://unrav.io/#view/f1604fd7b327f48a9920f4d2561b9626