I’ve never really heard a compelling argument for myself to want to have kids. Most of my friends/family have said one of these “it’s just what you do” “I wan

I’ve never really heard a compelling argument for myself to want to have kids. Most of my friends/family have said one of these “it’s just what you do” “I want a mini-me” (yikes) “I don’t wanna adopt. I want my OWN kid” “I want a best friend” “I want someone to take care of me when I’m old” To me these all read as selfish which is why I never reached a compelling conclusion to have my own kids.