> If your not willing to have the other person shame you for your gift then you shouldn't be giving gifts. Not sure where you were raised but in the western wo

> If your not willing to have the other person shame you for your gift then you shouldn't be giving gifts. Not sure where you were raised but in the western world, shaming the gift giver is extremely rude and will definitely cost you your social reputation. The gift giver is considered to be right in being upset at being shamed