The biggest thing people who have lost someone close to them have to say is that they start to forget what the person looked like and sounded like. I am doing i

The biggest thing people who have lost someone close to them have to say is that they start to forget what the person looked like and sounded like. I am doing it - I think if you keep it casual, like "hey, I was just thinking about you and the day you graduate high school, and I'll bet....." kind of thing, you're making it less morbid.