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This person's style is a great sorting machine. If you don't like it, you're not going to get along with them. I like it very much. I would probably hire this

This person's style is a great sorting machine. If you don't like it, you're not going to get along with them. I like it very much. I would probably hire this person.

okdood64 2y ago
> Please retire to do something that doesn't hurt my soul this badly and that you might actually have an aptitude for, like burning down orphanages or kicking puppies. Yea, this guy sounds pleasant. Would love to work with him. But seriously, I don't understand how people can appreciate this level of toxicity.
- McAtNite 2y ago
  One of my favorite people I ever worked with was like this. We could disagree on an approach, I’d call him a moron, he’d tell me to go fuck myself, then we’d laugh and go back to our work. It’s a very different style of work where politeness, ego, and professionalism weren’t factors. The only focus was the tech and ensuring it was moving as efficiently as possible. You could really push things in whatever direction you needed as long as you had the metrics to show it was better.
  - lobf 2y ago
    That sounds like a toxic relationship and work environment.
    - McAtNite 2y ago
      Different strokes I guess. I personally appreciate the straight forward approach to this style versus the normal corporate environment.
      - lobf 2y ago
        You can be straight forward without being crass, rude, or aggressive. That’s a desirable professional skill.
        McAtNite 2y ago
        I think much like the author’s writing it’s a very polarizing thing, and it either clicks with people or doesn’t. For those that it doesn’t I can understand the viewpoint that it’s extremely negative. I disagree that it’s inherently rude or aggressive. You can absolutely tell someone they’re a moron in a very polite and joking way, but it clearly won’t translate into writing very well. As for crass, yeah definitely ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
        mariusor 2y ago
        Or you can judge how to approach each interaction individually instead of applying a global veneer of fake pleasantness that the US work culture labels as "being professional".
        itsoktocry 2y ago
        >US work culture labels as "being professional". You guys realize this person wrote a blog post about not being able to find a job, right? "This toxic personality is so refreshing? But why can't he find a job?" What a mystery.
- throwaway5959 2y ago
  Work for a terrible engineering organization (public, private, doesn’t matter) and you’ll understand. Especially where technical leadership can’t rely on engineers to do anything but code with very strict guardrails.
  - itsoktocry 2y ago
    >Work for a terrible engineering organization (public, private, doesn’t matter) and you’ll understand. Understand what? This guy is contributing to horrible environments, not just a victim. Why are do so many tech people have such low agency?
    - throwaway5959 2y ago
      I never said I would work for a place like that again. Just trying to explain why he may feel frustrated.
- mariusor 2y ago
  Cultural humour does not translate that well between AUS and other western countries, especially the US, but sometimes a joke is just a joke.
- dogleash 2y ago
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itsoktocry 2y ago
>I like it very much. I would probably hire this person. Sounds like a low-EQ environment. I'm perfect, every issue is someone else's.

This person's style is a great sorting machine. If you don't like it, you're not going to get along with them. I like it very much. I would probably hire this person.

okdood64 2y ago

> Please retire to do something that doesn't hurt my soul this badly and that you might actually have an aptitude for, like burning down orphanages or kicking puppies. Yea, this guy sounds pleasant. Would love to work with him. But seriously, I don't understand how people can appreciate this level of toxicity.

McAtNite 2y ago
One of my favorite people I ever worked with was like this. We could disagree on an approach, I’d call him a moron, he’d tell me to go fuck myself, then we’d laugh and go back to our work. It’s a very different style of work where politeness, ego, and professionalism weren’t factors. The only focus was the tech and ensuring it was moving as efficiently as possible. You could really push things in whatever direction you needed as long as you had the metrics to show it was better.
- lobf 2y ago
  That sounds like a toxic relationship and work environment.
  - McAtNite 2y ago
    Different strokes I guess. I personally appreciate the straight forward approach to this style versus the normal corporate environment.
    - lobf 2y ago
      You can be straight forward without being crass, rude, or aggressive. That’s a desirable professional skill.
      - McAtNite 2y ago
        I think much like the author’s writing it’s a very polarizing thing, and it either clicks with people or doesn’t. For those that it doesn’t I can understand the viewpoint that it’s extremely negative. I disagree that it’s inherently rude or aggressive. You can absolutely tell someone they’re a moron in a very polite and joking way, but it clearly won’t translate into writing very well. As for crass, yeah definitely ¯\ _(ツ)_/¯
      - mariusor 2y ago
        Or you can judge how to approach each interaction individually instead of applying a global veneer of fake pleasantness that the US work culture labels as "being professional".
        itsoktocry 2y ago
        >US work culture labels as "being professional". You guys realize this person wrote a blog post about not being able to find a job, right? "This toxic personality is so refreshing? But why can't he find a job?" What a mystery.
throwaway5959 2y ago
Work for a terrible engineering organization (public, private, doesn’t matter) and you’ll understand. Especially where technical leadership can’t rely on engineers to do anything but code with very strict guardrails.
- itsoktocry 2y ago
  >Work for a terrible engineering organization (public, private, doesn’t matter) and you’ll understand. Understand what? This guy is contributing to horrible environments, not just a victim. Why are do so many tech people have such low agency?
  - throwaway5959 2y ago
    I never said I would work for a place like that again. Just trying to explain why he may feel frustrated.
mariusor 2y ago
Cultural humour does not translate that well between AUS and other western countries, especially the US, but sometimes a joke is just a joke.
dogleash 2y ago
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itsoktocry 2y ago

>I like it very much. I would probably hire this person. Sounds like a low-EQ environment. I'm perfect, every issue is someone else's.