>Plenty of people recognize when it's time. Thank you for being relatively polite. All of the replies to my original comment have veered off from what I tried

>Plenty of people recognize when it's time. Thank you for being relatively polite. All of the replies to my original comment have veered off from what I tried to express with the phrase "right now". I was alluding to a situation with rapid terminal cancer much later than diagnosis, but earlier than morphine + the end of communication. The fentanyl or oxycontin stage, as I recall it. I think most likely if you are ever so slightly insulated from such a situation, you might not realize it. Having a parent die of cancer when you are ~7 may not prepare you for having a parent die of cancer when you are ~37. That is how I see it now.