> People like you are why I never ask for reasonable accommodations for my disability, even when I am having serious health problems. Fair warning: when people

> People like you are why I never ask for reasonable accommodations for my disability, even when I am having serious health problems. Fair warning: when people like you break down and go AWOL, you end up on the radar of people like me. Then it gets handled as a semi-public security incident instead of the confidential medical issue it should have been. Once I reach out to your colleagues trying to figure out what the fuck is going on, rumors start spreading. Your aversion to accepting accommodations only hurts you. If you need help, you must ask. Losing control of your own narrative is nobody's fault but yours.