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You matched with and met multiple women so the apps seem to be working as designed. You seem to have an idea of your attractiveness which doesn't match the mea
by badcppdev 3y ago
You matched with and met multiple women so the apps seem to be working as designed.
You seem to have an idea of your attractiveness which doesn't match the measurably evidence and yet you discard that evidence. Why?
I get the impression that attractiveness is very important to you. Ironically I think that might be a very unattractive trait.
- Madmallard 3y agoYour reply is not particularly astute nor is it charitable. (1) Perhaps I have also dated not through online dating, where it completely aligns with what I'm saying? (2) Caring that someone is sexually appealing to you... a red flag? (3) Yes I would agree that shallowness is unattractive, as anyone would. However, bringing up a point specifically relevant to online dating apps and implying that it may be specifically relevant to online dating apps does not necessarily mean that is my entire mentality. If I met up with multiple women knowing I said what I said, perhaps it would not be such a logical leap to assume maybe that attractiveness does not matter to me as much as you seem to think it does?
- badcppdev 3y agoI wish I had understood more clearly that you were comparing your online vs offline experiences.