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> “Tell me about you. If your life was a book, give me the chapter titles from your birth till now.” Utterly ridiculous.

trgn 3y ago
Really condescending way of talking to a person.
stefanos82 3y ago
This reminds me of an interview I have had in the past that made me very uncomfortable. They asked me the same question and I paused for a moment and replied "excuse me, but this question makes me feel uncomfortable; I'm here for an interview not for a date!". They realized they overdid it and asked me actual questions. Eventually decided I was the right candidate for them, but until they decided to reply back, I already had found job elsewhere. Why do they ask such type of questions anyway?!
- beretguy 3y ago
  > Why do they ask such type of questions anyway?! They are incompetent at doing their jobs.
SketchySeaBeast 3y ago
"Well, I like to call chapter 7 'The Fuck Pig'. It'll make sense in a minute."
- kdazzle 3y ago
  Dat you, David Cameron?
Trasmatta 3y ago
> Once you’ve gotten the overview, dive into each “chapter” and plumb the depths for their real stories. Go back to their childhood! Oh God. A job interview isn't a therapy session. Why would people ever feel this type of questioning is appropriate for a job interview? How would someone who's dealt with intense trauma during some of those "chapters" respond? Especially given the power imbalance in a job interview, and the pressure you feel to give an answer. I'd like to believe that I would be willing to politely decline to answer questions like this, thank the interviewer and tell them there just seems to be a mismatch, and walk out of the door. But I don't know if I'd be able to, due to the stress of a job interview.
reportgunner 3y ago
I'm getting red flags from this guide. "Tell me about your best X" is a very low effort question. Being excited about digging through person's life like it's an open book and even excited about them explaining how they cared of their dying parent is perverted at best.

trgn 3y ago

Really condescending way of talking to a person.

stefanos82 3y ago

This reminds me of an interview I have had in the past that made me very uncomfortable. They asked me the same question and I paused for a moment and replied "excuse me, but this question makes me feel uncomfortable; I'm here for an interview not for a date!". They realized they overdid it and asked me actual questions. Eventually decided I was the right candidate for them, but until they decided to reply back, I already had found job elsewhere. Why do they ask such type of questions anyway?!

beretguy 3y ago
> Why do they ask such type of questions anyway?! They are incompetent at doing their jobs.

SketchySeaBeast 3y ago

"Well, I like to call chapter 7 'The Fuck Pig'. It'll make sense in a minute."

kdazzle 3y ago
Dat you, David Cameron?

Trasmatta 3y ago

> Once you’ve gotten the overview, dive into each “chapter” and plumb the depths for their real stories. Go back to their childhood! Oh God. A job interview isn't a therapy session. Why would people ever feel this type of questioning is appropriate for a job interview? How would someone who's dealt with intense trauma during some of those "chapters" respond? Especially given the power imbalance in a job interview, and the pressure you feel to give an answer. I'd like to believe that I would be willing to politely decline to answer questions like this, thank the interviewer and tell them there just seems to be a mismatch, and walk out of the door. But I don't know if I'd be able to, due to the stress of a job interview.

reportgunner 3y ago

I'm getting red flags from this guide. "Tell me about your best X" is a very low effort question. Being excited about digging through person's life like it's an open book and even excited about them explaining how they cared of their dying parent is perverted at best.