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Those poor women, truly missing out on the gift that is you.

• deleted 3y ago
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• csa 3y ago
  > Those poor women, truly missing out on the gift that is you. Given how much single women in their 30s and up (I am not in the 20-something demographic) kvetch about not being able to find a good guy to date/marry, I think that some of them (much like this woman in the article, who I think is younger) might do well to figure out the things that make them no-go material for desirable guys (whether it’s guys like me or guys with other traits that they find desirable).
  • defrost 3y ago
    Not finding what someone wants doesn't mean they should settle for what they don't.
    • csa 3y ago
      > Not finding what someone wants doesn't mean they should settle for what they don't. Agreed. I don’t recall advocating for anyone to “settle”, which I personally think is a recipe for disaster.
      • defrost 3y ago
        You comment does appear to advocate that "some of these" women should mold themselves towards what men want and knock off corners that men find undesirable.
        • Detrytus 3y ago
          Well, you know how this works: if one person that you've met recently does not like you, then maybe there's something wrong with them. If a hundred people that you've met recently don't like you, then maybe there's something wrong with you.