I actually wrote a script called wemux (https://github.com/zolrath/wemux https://github.com/zolrath/wemux) specifically to enhance tmux remote pair programming.

I actually wrote a script called wemux (https://github.com/zolrath/wemux https://github.com/zolrath/wemux) specifically to enhance tmux remote pair programming. Adds user/server listing, a concept of host/client, attach/detach messages and more.