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Very timely for me as well, have been having tough time with my partner especially about how unfriendly and critical I sound, even though my intentions are for
by breakingwalls 3y ago
Very timely for me as well, have been having tough time with my partner especially about how unfriendly and critical I sound, even though my intentions are for general improvement and well being around home.
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- TylerE 3y agoThere is little less welcome than unsolicited "advice", especially coming from the person and place that are supposed to be the refuge from all the shit going on in the world.
- fragmede 3y ago"Hey, are you open to feedback?" works wonders. Also be prepared for "no". This does require someone who's able to say no though, which isn't a given.
- awb 3y agoA long-term partner probably knows you better than anyone. No one likes getting called out on their stuff, if you want to grow as a person or as a couple you’re going to move past that initial discomfort, reflect on it and then decide if it’s valid enough feedback to try to integrate it.