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Self control is not about having Temporary Control, it's about being in (reasonably) full control of yourself. You see, this is a difference between "complete"
by DropInIn 3y ago
Self control is not about having Temporary Control, it's about being in (reasonably) full control of yourself.
You see, this is a difference between "complete" people and people who haven't actually finished "developing" (which is the vast majority even at 80).
Control is a constant, not a transient, trait.
- sverona 3y agoI don't think "complete" is the right word to use. Perhaps "whole." It seems to me that what you're describing as "development" is in many cases the process of healing from trauma, which indeed stunts one's development. The emotional mechanism at play in my case is pretty clear to me but healing is a slow process and it takes as long as it takes.