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I noticed that there's a huge difference between receiving criticism on something that is work in progress versus something I consider being "done". When somet
by phlsa 3y ago
I noticed that there's a huge difference between receiving criticism on something that is work in progress versus something I consider being "done".
When something is still a work in progress in my mind, it is much easier to have a positive attitude towards criticism and see it as something that helps me improve. There's something I can _do_ with the criticism in these cases.
However, when I consider something as done and it is criticized, I can get frustrated and defensive. It's a bigger mental leap that's necessary to make the criticism actionable.
The simple (though not easy) solution is to consider nothing as permanently done.
- curiousllama 3y agoAgreed. Unless you’re my PM. Then the requirements are DONE dammit