Most parents won't drastically change the financial resources or personal time they commit to their kids' development. They probably can't. But this aspect see

Most parents won't drastically change the financial resources or personal time they commit to their kids' development. They probably can't. But this aspect seems immediately achievable and costs little: "It is just a way of viewing children: as capable of competence, as craving meaningful work, as worthy to be included in serious discussions. We can learn to view them like that, but it is a subtle and profound shift in perception, a shift away from the way we are taught to view children."