Echo recommendation for CBT. Helped me greatly and it will help you. How old will you be in 5 years if you do nothing? 45. If you make big changes, how old wil

Echo recommendation for CBT. Helped me greatly and it will help you. How old will you be in 5 years if you do nothing? 45. If you make big changes, how old will you be in 5 years? The same? The point is: your age has nothing to do with it. At 40, you're still young. Get thee back to the US. You can change careers. You can have a wife and kids. Although be prepared to meet women with "baggage" - a prior divorce and children. The key to find a wife is to treat it like a second full-time job. Were you raised in a particular religious faith? If yes, join a singles group associated to it? Worried that you'll meet a woman who will want to go to church every Sunday? Stop worrying -- you can sit through anything for an hour. You're not too old. It's not too late. Good luck.