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There's no such thing as too old, and no such thing as too late, unless you stop trying. There are 3 billion people on the planet, and plenty of potential mates
by m1m1ck 4y ago
There's no such thing as too old, and no such thing as too late, unless you stop trying.
There are 3 billion people on the planet, and plenty of potential mates that are in the same exact situation as you.
Getting a job is a good start and will help with both your self-confidence and your lady problems.
Just like birds who choose a mate based on color, song, and nest building - humans also will look for a mate who is organized, responsible, well dressed, with good hygiene. So if you're not sure how to meet and talk to women, start with the basics:
(Money) Get a job,
(Nest) Get a place to stay, and keep your stuff organized and clean,
(Song/social) join a music or art class or if you're not musical, try to spend time with people, either volunteering, or learning something, or join a local faith or traditional group. (Church group, excersize group, or crafting meetups), this adds some "spice" to your life even if you don't end up finding a mate.
Start by trying to make friends first, don't try for romance too soon.