Are the women you're basing this on also in their 40s? Or even 30s? The dynamic changes a lot with age. Women in this age bracket - especially if they want kid

Are the women you're basing this on also in their 40s? Or even 30s? The dynamic changes a lot with age. Women in this age bracket - especially if they want kids - are of course not in a position to be nearly as selective as they were able in their early 20s.